I’ve started the year as I have the last few years, looking through the 50 things list and updating what was completed the year before and what I could/should do this year to get closer to achieving as many goals as possible.
One of the goals is to start a scrapbook, it’s not something I’ve ever done before and having had a quick look at scrapbooking it’s terrifying !
All the different books, papers, cutters etc, where to start or even how. It’s easy to understand why people avoid crafting. It’s complicated and all the ‘help and tutorials’ make everything look easy and theirs always turns out perfectly however the reality isn’t always that way. It can be tricky, messy and not always straight, but they will be our memories.
So to start with I’m going to collect everything together in a special tin. All tickets, stubs, photographs, anything from days out, events and holidays. Then I can organise and start to plan how to put them together. Until then I can explore ideas and maybe perfect a few techniques or even just some straight lines.
In October we decided to take a short break away to Blackpool, it’s always been one our favourite ‘guilty pleasures’.
We did all our usual activities, saw the lights, into the tower for a dance around the ballroom and a laugh at the circus, made a wax hand at Madame Tussaud’s, a day of swimming at the sandcastle and the highlight….. getting soaked and terrified (mostly me) on the rides at the pleasure beach.
It was a very cold week but good to spend some quality time together.
November arrived with a couple of surprises, a permanent job (in a place I enjoy working with lovely staff) and a new allotment.
As you can see it’s been well looked after and is in a decent condition, unlike the last one. This one is a family affair, myself and my mum. So you can look forward to some allotment blogging in 2018.
A day out in Liverpool for a look at the Grayson Perry dresses in the Walker Art Gallery.
I attempted a little craft project with a few balls of wool I had kept (after my clear out – Bye-Bye knitting needles) and created a huge pile of pom-poms and created a bedroom rug, it looked pretty good for about two weeks but the constant foot-fall soon took it’s toll and some of them started to ‘shed’ so I’ve moved it to a different part of the room, where it will get less wear. I will replace a couple of the worst affected.
before the wear and tear
December arrived, busy as December always is. A few birthdays, a night out with friends and Christmas with the family.
A hope you’ve had a lovely time and 2018 is a happy and healthy year for you.
It’s been a little while but I needed to take a bit of a step back from everything and take care of me for a while. The last 12 months caught up a bit plus the lack of routine and a couple of awful jobs knocked me sideways. After a chat with the GP, support of family, a couple of good friends and finding a new job things have improved.
So lets catch-up, first the new job. It arrived just at the right time, it’s close to home, the hours are perfect and the most important thing, the staff are lovely. I actually look forward to going to work, it’s busy but not stressful and we have a giggle. I have routine back again.
At the end of May I went to Belfast for a weekend, a quick surprise visit. I’ve never been before but will return. It was a lovely place, friendly people and tons of history. Too much to see in a weekend. Another tick for 50 things
A few weeks of work and school finished, the end of primary school and the start of a new adventure awaits.
We’ve had a birthday and a week away in London, plus several get-together’s with friends has made it a happy summer.
Sorry for the lack of posts but things have been a bit busy. I finished work, so decided to re-decorate my bedroom.
My mum went away so I put Oscar into her room and moved some of my furniture into his to make painting easier. I bought some new wallpaper for the chimney breast wall.
After trying a few tester pots, pale green was the best colour for both the wallpaper and bedding.
The painting was a nightmare, firstly the lilac underneath shone through the first and second coats, then when going to buy another tin of paint my car broke down and I had to be rescued
and buy a new battery for the car. So three days of painting and 2 tins of paint later it was finished, and looks much better and brighter. It also gave me the opportunity to have a clear out of pictures, ornaments and general junk I’ve kept just because.
I also decided to move the bed and some of the furniture, although I would like some new furniture eventually.
first coffee of the day
packed lunch made
wake the sleeping dragon
a growing boy’s breakfast
time to get busy
tidy up time
shame it’s not bonfire night
twice we visited
but we found this beauty
every garden needs a bug house
finally we can see the floor
the statue has been freed
playing for the school team
A busy but productive mother/daughter day …..
I’ve had a lot of time over the last few months and have watched a fair number of films, some have been fantastic but not made the top 250 list and others (on The list) have been awful, tedious and boring.
I finally got organised and put the film list onto an Excel document, marked and highlighted the watched ones, so now I know I have seen 156 out of 250, not a bad figure.
One film I have watched recently (not on the list) was Dreams of a life, a documentary type film. A true story about a woman, Joyce Vincent, who was found dead in her London flat. She had been dead for three years, she had friends, family and work colleagues. So how could it happen ? How can someone just disappear and it not be noticed ? Since finishing work I can understand a little how this could be, I have hardly seen anyone. If it wasn’t for the school run and my immediate family I could have dropped off the earth and not been noticed. Everyone relies on the very ‘unsocial’ social media to keep in contact but I find that I’m using it less now, possible because it feels like my life has nothing going on and very little worth telling anyone about.
Any way enough wallowing, I’ve still got films to watch ……
My last post was also my 100th post, so many things have changed since that first one, even blogging has changed for me. At the start it was new and scary, but a few posts in and I was enjoying doing things, looking for reasons to write.
Then life changed, in many ways and my world became tiny, distanced from friends, no routine. Lonely, boring and not blog worthy.
I’ve been thinking about a few dilemmas over the last few days. So here’s where you might be able to help me. As a single parent, making decisions can be terrifying, so having people around to discuss ideas, suggestions and recommendations is always helpful.
The current dilemma – to get my son his own mobile phone or not ? He’s starting secondary school soon. Here are my thoughts …
Around half of the kids in his class already have one, including some that he wants to keep contact with when he leaves for secondary school. I understand the pressure to be the same, keep up but it worries me. Is he old enough for the responsibility of a phone and internet access. I trust that he will tell me of any issues, and we’ve discussed rules. He already talks to me about any issues he has, so will it make that bond stronger or push him away ?
Getting one now will give him time to get used to using it with kids he is comfortable around before he moves to his new school. Also they could be a good support when he moves if he needs it.
So what do you think ? Any advice, guidance will be appreciated.
Thank you my friends for being around and the support you’ve given me, here’s to the next 100 posts….